Are you standing on the edge of the cliff, waiting to start your business, waiting to take that first leap? Are you making up excuses why not to jump, trying to avoid the first few steps? Are you worried about what lies below the water?
The uncertainty alone can drive anyone nuts, so you wait until you’re confident enough to dive in. What if the only time to dive in, whether certain or uncertain, is right now? Right this second, as you read these words?
Did you feel discomfort as you read this? It’s perfectly human to feel uneasy about going after your entrepreneurial dreams in full force. We all go through it. The great thing is that you don’t have to let that discomfort affect what you do. You can feel scared and still jump!
It can be challenging to fight your mind and body when it’s trying to stop you from doing something that you’re afraid of, so there are many things that you can do to deal with this fear and move ahead.
1) Join a networking group of new, positive entrepreneurs
You’re not the only one going through this. There are millions of others who want to start their business and are scared of making the first leap. You don’t have to suffer alone. By joining a group of emerging entrepreneurs, you can support and motivate each other as you follow through with your own business. Talking with other people will remind you why you are doing this business in the first place, which leads to the next item.
2) Remind yourself why you want to start your business
With all of the anxiety of starting your own business, it helps to remind yourself of the reasons why you want to start your own business. Is it for the financial freedom, to help your community, or across the world? Is it to express yourself creatively, to do something that you feel passionate about?
Whatever the reasons are, keep reminding yourself of them. Write out a list of all the reasons. Don’t over-analyze. Let your instincts guide your writing.
Read the list to yourself at least once a day. Read it every time you feel discouraged at work or unfulfilled in what you do
3) BE with the feeling
These fears of uncertainty and anxiety are not apart of who you are. You can be afraid and not let the fear paralyze you. You can let yourself be afraid without having to push your fears down or beat yourself up.
Instead, at this moment, you can feel whatever feeling comes up, fear or strength, good or bad, and just be with the feeling. Recognize that these feelings are not you, be aware of them, recognize them and continue.
There are a million ways to handle the fear and different techniques work for different people. The important thing is to continue looking for new ways to keep you excited and motivated.
None of these techniques are a cure all. None of them can be done once to eliminate fear all together. Whatever technique works for you needs to be repeated and renewed over and over again. Soon enough, these positive coping methods will help enable you to have control over your fears and anxieties and successfully start your own business.
Amar Kumar is a Business Consultant for
Effensource Global Services. He who runs
Networking Events and 1-on-1 Consultations to help people get over the intimidation of starting and running their own business.